A woman sitting on wooden stairs, wearing a blue satin shirt, smiling warmly, with bare feet and folded arms.

Whatever brought you here, this is a sign. It’s your call to reconnect with the sexual energy that is your lifeforce.

Reclaim your lifeforce

“We believe that erotic is just another word for alive.”

Where pleasure meets play

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Discover your sexual palace

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Pleasure is not a dirty word

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Where pleasure meets play ~ Discover your sexual palace ~ Pleasure is not a dirty word ~

“Erotic = Alive”

Pleasure Architects exist to help you harness your turn-on and step into yourself fully. Combining the science of sexology and the ancient wisdom of tantra, we’ll help you create your own toolkit for a more embodied and emboldened life.

When you learn to unlock the burning desire within you, life starts to get really good.
Together, we’ll discover what’s underneath the stories, insecurities and hang-ups that are holding you back.

With us as your guide, you’ll be empowered to…

🌀 Decondition subconscious programming

🧠Reconnect your thinking mind with your body

💞 Deepen intimacy with yourself and others

Hi, I’m Steph

A smiling woman in a yellow dress sitting on a sofa indoors.

The first thing you need to know about me is that I’m not interested in playing it small.

After founding a thriving accounting firm—my own Iron Empire—and juggling business, motherhood, a long-term relationship, and life as a neurodivergent woman, I still felt like something was missing.

I wanted more. More fun. More fire. More great sex(!). More connection—to myself, to others, to life.

What began as a personal healing journey quickly turned into something sacred. Tantra, psychotherapy, and clinical sexology became the pillars of a powerful path that transformed me from the inside out.

Now, I guide others through that same awakening—back to the truth of who they are, and the pleasure that’s always been theirs to claim.

“Start with Sex. Transform Your Life.”

Initial Consult

We’ll break down your goals, what’s working and what’s not.
Think of it like dating—we’re getting to know each other and seeing if we vibe.

Claim your Consult

6 Weeks to Transformation

Our signature journey. Weekly private sessions designed for long-term metamorphosis.
If you’re craving change but don’t know where to start, this is it.

  • Week 1-2: Talk therapy + intro to tantra

  • Week 3-4: Somatic practices to reconnect and release

  • Week 5-6: Hands-on tantra + custom pleasure rituals

Step Into Pleasure

  • Most profound and nourishing experience

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    I feel so much more freedom in my relationship, in my sexuality, and in love. The connection I now have with my partner has grown into something so much more beautiful and alive, because of the space you helped create. I’m endlessly grateful for you

  • Stuck in a rut

     I found from the beginning some of the simple little changes Steph suggested made some big changes as I changed the way I looked at myself and what I was doing.  I’m a work in progress but I’m happy to say I feel 100% than I did when I started and I can see light at the end of the tunnel.  After half a dozen sessions with Steph I know I’m on the right path.

  • Correcting my own negative self talk

    Working with Steph has been such a different experience! The breathwork, guided meditations and other Tantric practices that Steph has taught me have been so valuable to me as practical tools to heal. I first realised that the Steph’s service was effective when I started to automatically correct my negative self talk, replacing it with a kinder voice.

    It gives me so much hope for my future knowing that I am actively working towards my goals and have Steph’s practice to guide me towards a healthier relationship with sex and intimacy.